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Independent Realist (S-M-T)
S-M-T-I-A-R
Self-Reliant Mediator
“I stand on my own within clear boundaries, and when problems arise I find a clear agreement and sort things out.”
- #FirmBoundaries
- #SelfReliance
- #ResolveRightAway
Great questions to ask me
- Let's set clear rules again right now to protect each other's boundaries.
Conflict prescription
Do
Quickly set sensible principles that respect each other's boundaries.
Avoid
Don't focus only on drawing clear lines and ignore the warmth your partner is missing.
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- S-M-T-C-A-RPractical Solution SolverI offer clean, practical solutions and handle problems intuitively the moment they arise.
- S-M-T-C-A-DClean Support BufferI support my partner intuitively, but when there's friction I take some buffer time to stay level-headed.
- S-M-T-C-E-RClear Talk Go-getterI keep conversations clear and transparent, and I talk conflicts through plainly instead of putting them off.
- S-M-T-C-E-DTransparent Trust BufferI build trust honestly and clearly, but when talks overheat I calmly pause for a moment.
- S-M-T-I-A-DClean Boundary BufferI build trust on respect for independence, and in a conflict we each return to our own space.
- S-M-T-I-E-RPlain Talk CloserI communicate plainly without fuss, and I clear up misunderstandings in the most rational, fastest way.
- S-M-T-I-E-DIndependent Realist BufferI communicate on a foundation of rational trust, and I talk only after taking time to think calmly.