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Independent Realist (S-M-T)
S-M-T-I-A-D
Clean Boundary Buffer
“I build trust on respect for independence, and in a conflict we each return to our own space.”
- #FirmBoundaries
- #CleanTrust
- #TimeToCoolDown
Great questions to ask me
- Let's finish sorting out our thoughts first so we don't cross each other's boundaries.
Conflict prescription
Do
Finish sorting out your thoughts in your own space, then approach calmly.
Avoid
Don't use boundaries as an excuse to wall off your partner when they reach out.
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- S-M-T-C-A-RPractical Solution SolverI offer clean, practical solutions and handle problems intuitively the moment they arise.
- S-M-T-C-A-DClean Support BufferI support my partner intuitively, but when there's friction I take some buffer time to stay level-headed.
- S-M-T-C-E-RClear Talk Go-getterI keep conversations clear and transparent, and I talk conflicts through plainly instead of putting them off.
- S-M-T-C-E-DTransparent Trust BufferI build trust honestly and clearly, but when talks overheat I calmly pause for a moment.
- S-M-T-I-A-RSelf-Reliant MediatorI stand on my own within clear boundaries, and when problems arise I find a clear agreement and sort things out.
- S-M-T-I-E-RPlain Talk CloserI communicate plainly without fuss, and I clear up misunderstandings in the most rational, fastest way.
- S-M-T-I-E-DIndependent Realist BufferI communicate on a foundation of rational trust, and I talk only after taking time to think calmly.