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Sensitive Self-Reliant (S-M-F)
S-M-F-I-A-R
Own-Haven Solver
“I act while keeping my own rhythm, and I sort out misunderstandings calmly, firmly, and right away.”
- #OwnRhythm
- #HavenOfMyOwn
- #ResolveRightAway
You have a calm, deep sensibility and love quietly while keeping your own texture. You respect each other's time, step in with practical help when it's needed, and address problems right away.
Strengths
- Steady and dependable, you build an easygoing relationship that respects each other's space.
- You quickly sense how your partner feels and take care of them in actions before words.
- You respect each other's time, yet face problems head-on as soon as they appear.
Watch out for
- Because you show little, your partner may find it hard to read how warm you feel.
- Your mood shows in your actions right away, so your partner may tiptoe around without knowing why.
- Keeping your distance most of the time but being blunt only in conflict can catch your partner off guard.
Dating tips
- Now and then, add a little excitement to everyday life with a small unplanned surprise.
- After showing it in actions, add a word or two: "That's why I did it."
- When you raise a problem, start by saying you're doing it because you want to protect the relationship.
Great questions to ask me
- Let's clearly sort out right now what's throwing off each other's rhythm.
Conflict prescription
Do
Calmly fix whatever is disturbing each other's peace.
Avoid
Don't put your own rhythm first no matter what and ignore your partner's pleas.
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