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Sensitive Self-Reliant (S-M-F)
S-M-F-C-E-R
Delicate Empathy Solver
“I value a deep emotional bond, and when friction arises I soothe hearts right away with delicate words.”
- #DeepEmotionalBond
- #DelicateEmpathy
- #ResolveRightAway
You have a calm, deep sensibility and love quietly while keeping your own texture. You keep in frequent touch, put your feelings into words, and talk through hurt right away.
Strengths
- Steady and dependable, you build an easygoing relationship that respects each other's space.
- You share feelings in honest, kind words, which helps your partner open up easily.
- You stay in touch and together often, and bring up hurt feelings right away to clear them.
Watch out for
- Because you show little, your partner may find it hard to read how warm you feel.
- Without reassurance in words, your worries can grow.
- When your partner needs time alone to think, it can feel to them like you're pushing.
Dating tips
- Now and then, add a little excitement to everyday life with a small unplanned surprise.
- When you want reassurance in words, also count the care your partner has shown in actions.
- If your partner wants time after an argument, just agree on when you'll talk, then wait.
Great questions to ask me
- I want to soothe the hurt that's settled in your heart right now.
Conflict prescription
Do
With a gentle expression and caring words, ease the hurt right away.
Avoid
Don't get too hurt by one small remark from your partner and close your heart.
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