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Flame Companion (P-W-F)
P-W-F-C-A-R
Flame Solution Go-getter
“In love and in conflict alike, I go straight at it and work things out on the spot.”
- #PassionateSync
- #AllInCare
- #ResolveRightAway
You fall in love wholeheartedly and find deep joy in sharing feelings together. You like to stay close, show your heart through actions, and clear up misunderstandings on the spot.
Strengths
- You pour out your heart without holding back, so your partner clearly feels loved.
- You quickly sense how your partner feels and take care of them in actions before words.
- You stay in touch and together often, and bring up hurt feelings right away to clear them.
Watch out for
- When you don't get back as much as you give, you can feel hurt quickly.
- Your mood shows in your actions right away, so your partner may tiptoe around without knowing why.
- When your partner needs time alone to think, it can feel to them like you're pushing.
Dating tips
- After pouring out your heart, give your partner room to respond at their own pace.
- After showing it in actions, add a word or two: "That's why I did it."
- If your partner wants time after an argument, just agree on when you'll talk, then wait.
Great questions to ask me
- There's something I've wanted to talk with you about all day. Will you hear me out honestly?
Conflict prescription
Do
When a misunderstanding comes up, don't hesitate. Talk it through honestly right then and there.
Avoid
Don't dodge the conversation, clam up, or let things slide without resolving them.
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- P-W-F-C-E-RRomantic Misunderstanding ResolverI value hearts in sync, and I clear up misunderstandings with a conversation right away.
- P-W-F-C-E-DHeartfelt Settling EmpathI never hold back romantic words, but in a conflict I give us each time to sort out our feelings.
- P-W-F-I-A-RIndependent Solution HelperI respect each other's space, and when problems arise I take quick, practical action.
- P-W-F-I-A-DQuiet Go-getter GuardianI support steadily through my own actions, and I give conflicts a roomy buffer zone.
- P-W-F-I-E-RDeep Story SolverWe trade energizing inspiration, and when problems come up we recover quickly through deep talks.
- P-W-F-I-E-DLingering Feelings BufferI share empathy and inspiration, and I heal hurt feelings with plenty of time.